Helping women get text appeal

Text messages, emails and online chat are usually the first strides people take into the dating game.

However, if you are used to just sending messages to your family and friends, it can be hard to know what to say to an extramarital lover or someone you are keen to arouse for a bit of nookie.

Thankfully, lifestyle website Crushable.com has some top tips to help women gain that all-important text appeal.

While you may be excited to get texting or messaging your secret lover straight away, the website says making him stew a little could build up the anticipation and will keep him interested.

This advice is also supported in recent research by American author Rachel Greenwald who told the Huffington Post that men are put off when a woman texts them first following a date.

People striking up a secret affair may also want to hold off on texting whenever they want as it could potentially expose their lover's adulterous relationship to their other half.

Keeping texts short and sweet to add an air of mystery is also advised along with allowing your fellow philanderer to make the plans if they are the one who has instigated the date, as you won't want to come across as overpowering.

Cheating celebrities such as Vernon Kay and Ashley Cole have highlighted the rising use of digital communication, just make sure you use it to your advantage and erase any private chat history to avoid being caught out.

Category: Discreet dating tips

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