http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog The adultery blog for the lovinglinks married dating site Mon, 29 Jun 2009 17:30:17 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Virginia Ironside has a good moral dilemma in the Indie today which we are covering in our forum area if anyone wishes to contribute. This is the dilemma: Dear Virginia, A few months ago, my husband admitted to me that he'd had an affair. Somehow – god knows how – we managed ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/29/should-i-meet-his-mistress.html Lucy wadham's article in today's Mail deals with an interesting subject - extramarital affair in France. I concur with much of what shw writes.  I lived in Paris throughout the 1980's and moved in a similar crowd of seccessful professionals and certainly most of our dinner party chums had affairs ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/26/french-affairs.html I have a strange mix of stuff on my pod but I must admit I enjoy strong 'in yer face' girl lyrics like the Pipettes or Lilly Allen.  As a bloke well in his middle years I find girls singing about the raw side of sex deeply alluring.  Occasionally I ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/15/me-and-my-ipod.html We have recently been discussing in our forum the use of bots on dating sites to trap the unwary into parting with hard earned cash.  Basically the bot will send sexy emails and signs of erotic encouragement to encourage you to sign up.  Then, of course, the bot vanishes.  Slightly ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/13/to-bot-or-not-to-bot.html There is something so 'biblical' in the concept of adultery that it makes reasonable discussion quite difficult at times.  A quick glance at Google brings up endless biblical references that place adultery alongside murder and killing your parents.  Adultery is something you 'commit' like murder whilst an 'having an affair' ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/10/adultery-is-such-a-biblical-crime.html I just spotted a poll from some S.African facebook posting and I pass you the link.  The question is an old chestnut:: is sex better with a secret lover or a regular partner?   Well, I suppose that's why we are all here isn't it?  We all think a secret lover ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/10/does-familiarity-breed-anything-worthwhile-in-the-bedroom.html The appointment  of Carlo Ancellotti is great news for adultery spotters like me.  The departure of Sven left a gaping hole in sporting infidelity.  I am certain he will provide my blog with lots of juicy pieces in the coming season.  The News of gthe World boys must be putting ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/03/welcome-to-chelsea-weve-been-expecting-you.html Well, Sally Antia and Mark Hawkins have come a cropper in Dubai after being found guilty of adultery.  It is a funny place.  i remeber back in the 80's when I was in ubai on business with my partner - we weren't married - we were there on a business ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/02/up-the-gulf-without-a-paddle.html One of the things that is endemic in the consultancy 1-2-1 side of my business is the 'no-shows'.  You book a meeting and the client doesn't turn up and their mobile is suddenly on permanent voicemail.  Or, even more annoyingly the mobile number they gave you is 'not recognised'.   Over ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/06/02/no-shows-and-wrinkly-sex.html Now that Summer has finally arrived does it make you feel hornier and more restless??  I know it does me; it is something in the air.  As Henry Miller put it in 'Quiet Days in Clichy' it was a 'period when cunt was in the air and the English girls ... http://www.lovinglinks.co.uk/blog/2009/05/30/sun-and-sin.html