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Yesterday I had Xmas lunch with an old LL client who has been using our site on and off for 12 years and who has had intimate knowledge of more than 80 women.  He is not Brad Pitt, he is nice looking, good gym-toned body but not a movie star.  He had been away for a couple of years (family stuff) but came back early this year for 2 months under a new identity that I didnt even spot.  He was full of praise for the LL system.  "Use it right" he said "and it is a total sexual goldmine".   I asked him his secret and it was the following:  He spent two 5 hour sessions at his computer and wrote to 70 women.  Each email was personally constructed and obviously written just for her.  He received 18 replies.  He exchanged emails with these 18 women and the list of possibles was whittled down to 5 meetings.  Each of the 5 was interested and he eventually settled for one woman who has been seeing for 3 months -result!

I told him that some guys get discouraged when they don't see instant results and he laughed – women told him just how unrealistic many men were in expecting instant sex.  "It doesnt matter how horny a woman is " he said "evryone wants to be seduced.  You can't just blunder in asking if they are 'up for it'! "  Some guys he said even have a hotel booked for the first meeting which is reallly arrogant and offensive to many women who come to LL looking for a fun realtionship with an interesting guy.  This tallies with many of the feedbacks I have had from female users  who say that men feel that an affair should pop through their PC screen like an ITune download. No, you have to be prepared to work at it.

If you use LL in a thoughtful way, taking time to seduce women you meet on the site you will succeed – our users are genuine and come to us to find friendship + sex not just a quick sh@g.