Train early to shag the nanny
[Posted March 21st, 2010]Lovely piece in the press this week. Apparently boys who have nannies go on to be unfaithful because they learn at an early age that women can be there to serve their needs and comforts. Any old excuse, probably wouldnt get Tiger or John terry off the hook though.
Loving links had a good publicity moment on thursday with ITV’s ‘This Morning Show, I had my 3rd close encounter with agony aunt Denise and I believe, modestly, that I got the best of it. The site has been rocking since then with dozens (nay hundreds) of sign ups.
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March 22nd, 2010 at 9:04 am
David,
Interesting interview on ITV.
I find agony aunts like Denise infuriating and stuck in an existing thought ‘box’.
Personally I have not yet started dating anyone since it is early days. At the moment my situation is that the sex side of the marriage has broken down but we have a lovely family unit. Our youngest child is about to leave home and actually we would like to keep the family together. However we would both knowingly be happy for each other to have an affair, and in effect, grow the family. So in this case we would consider it as adding to the family in a way, to find other friends who would be happy with the situation.
With regard to people like agony aunt Denise:
What she is doing is trying to take responsibility away from her ‘clients’. By all means she can give them advice, but frankly, it MUST be left up to the people involved to decide if they want to be secretive or not. All this harping on about the other spouse is trying to put that spouse into a victim box, when in fact each case must be taken individually. I would like to bet that the other half has some secret of their own anyway. True adults do not necessarily share ALL secrets with any other adult, so a true adult will therefore decide carefully what to share and what not. Denise seems to be arguing for having no boundaries at all between partners in a marriage. Psychologically that is very dodgy. Her behaviour reminds me of the Victim – Aggressor – Rescuer triangle where she is putting the other spouse in the Victim box, the cheating spouse in the Aggressor box and herself in the Rescuer box.
We really need to become more enlightened and move on from, but not totally remove, the current marriage idea. Even using the work cheating is old world.