When I started blogging about adultery it was basically a light hearted venture. We could smile as celebs like Jude Law got caught with their pants around their ankles and the news reporters hiding in his wardrobe. We also smiled at the chequebook journalism with the ‘I shagged Man Utd striker’ revelations. Nothing earth shattering or disturbing there. I now look at my screen and find that a macabre streak has moved in and encapsulated in yesterdays Mail with a major article om marriages ending in murder. Crimes of passion rule ok! As hard as I try I can find nothing that amuses in millionaire banker Neil Ellerbeck who was found guilty of manslaughter after strangling his wife Kate. This is the darkside of adultery. Alongside this we have Alisdair Sinclair who stands accused of stabbing to death his wife, mobile phone executive Sally, in front of two children. We have some bloggable content in the case of poet Joanne Hale who is accused of luring her husband Peter into the woods with the promise of a ‘ drugfuelled sex session’ driven by a herbal aphrodisiac called Horny Goat Weed. This is kinky stuff, we have sex games, sex drugs and the motive - Joanne wanted to pop off for some rumpy pumpy with a guy she met on the internet. Most women I know would simply say they were out for a pilates class or a school reunion. But no, Joanne was really creative , she was a poet after all. I’m struggling as you can see to inject something chatty into the death of three people from the nasty effects of adultery. Come back Sven - all is forgiven!