Dinner. V. no-dinner
[Posted April 24th, 2009]I really despair of the merry world of adultery. Now that someone has set up a website called something like ‘no dinner required’ or something along those lines. I havent visited it since it would depress me. I always felt that my clients wanted a bit of romance, a nice meal, a gentle seduction. Maybe I am wrong, maybe the ‘no dinner’ crowd are more ‘on message’ than me? I just had a call from a lovely new lady client in her 30’s - cute, exotic and sexy. She met up with 3 of my private clients last week and she was amazed by the urgency they all had to get down to the ‘act’ without wasting time over any of the getting to know you stages. Then one of them had the Chutzpah to say how he wouldnt want to have sex with a prostitute! The girl told him that that was exactly how he was trying to treat her but without paying! Yet when i speak to these clients they tell me how they want the magic and mysetry of a relationship. I think they are lying to me and to themselves - they would all prefer to skip dinner and go straight to a hotel room 













May 6th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
David you’ve put your finger on it. Men lie. They claim they want the romance etc etc but they don’t want to spend any money in the process. My ex always took me to great hotels etc, nice meals but it was all on expenses.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:03 am
Hi David, not all men are like this. The Gold service does suggest that something is automatically going to be ‘up for grabs’, for want of a better phrase. The sexual tension of waiting until we may or may not get into bed it is extremely sexy and satisfying, my man knows and understands me well enough to know that. It’s all about ego David, some men are more bothered about their own experience and satisfaction as opposed to ensuring that you both have a wonderful time. What’s the point otherwise?