So Pentecostal hypocrite Michael Reid bites the dust under the grinding foot of the Daily Mail   I have no sympathy at all for this sort of adulterer caught with his pants down.  He would have been the first to call for loving links to be shut down yet he wasn’t content with a bit of private ‘bishop bashing’ he decided to go deep and dirty  with his choir mistress.  His wife has forgiven him she is probably too shocked and dazed to do anything else.

I was chatting to one of our lovely ladies the other day and we were discussing a possible contact.  "But what is he looking for?" she asked.  I replied he was after a Claudia Schiffer-style woman.  "Ok" she said "He can close his eyes and imagine i’m Claudia Schiffer and I’ll close my eyes and imagine he’s Brad Pitt!"   This says it in a nutshell, in these things its down to compromise.  Some clients of mine just keep walking away from excellent opportunities because they are not willing to be flexible on age, height, hair on head, attention to make up etc.  They need to close their eyes more and enjoy what life offers them - they could be pleasantly suprised.

Great posting on the Best Of craigs list I spotted recently - I’ll quote it in full:

I want to have a club. A club made only for women who made the poor decision of dating and falling in love with a married man.

"If he is still in the same house as her, he’s not in the midst of leaving her. He’s with her. If he was *actually* prepared to leave, he would *actually* be taking steps to find another bed to sleep in, not *actually* text messaging you twice a day as his method of talking to the ‘love of his life’ on the weekend. And actually? His wife probably *is* pyschotic and suicidal and it’s actually because her husband is a lying dipshit."

Very good discussion on the askmen blog th a wide range of intelligent comment from guys of all ages

Just when I thought that loving links women were getting younger our average age went shooting up again with a new client.  i have no idea of her age but she was elegant, refined, tall and slim and she had just finished a relationship with a 38 year old.  She seems to have no concern for her own age - much less self obsessed than many younger women - and sees herself as great date in our market.  Judging from initial reaction I think she is right.  Guys do seem to appreciate the allure of a sophisticated older woman, their agendas are far less complex and they are likely to be quite appreciative of a younger man’s energy levels.  Mind you. the balance shifted again 6 hours later when I signed up a 25 year old dentist who was too foxy to be true

Here is a great link if you want to sit in judgement on the sexual trangressions of others.  Here they have agony aunt questions where you can poll your opinion.  Here’s a sample question :

I promised myself this wouldn’t happen but I have gotten myself involved with this woman. Before my I got married, I was cheating on my then girlfriend with this same woman. I managed to break it off when we got engaged but it was hard because this woman didn’t want to let me go. She was even at my wedding because she is supposed to be a friend. Now it has started again. She just kept calling and emailing. Now I feel like if I try to break it off again that she’s going to tell my wife or do something crazy. I really don’t know what to do. Part of me just wishes she would die

The choices are:

One of the joys of running a website is that you can pass time surfing the web looking for other sites that mention you or link to you.  I just came across a beauty - the Jesus army search engine seems to take a very broad view of its ministry and happily promotes just about every alternative lifestyle on the net.  I say great!  They seem like a fun crowd.

Finnish Foreign Minister Ilkka Kanerva was forced to quit his job this week after he admitted bombarding a stripper with mobile phone texts.  Finnish chums of mine suggest that it was the fact that he made himself look ridiculous, rather than the fact that he wanted to know what she wore under her dress, that he was obliged to step down.   Those who know Helsinki are aware that it is quite normal to see cabinet ministers on the prowl in pick up joints like Storyville jazz club.  Well good luck to them I say!  It can get very chilly in Finland in the winter.

Here is the link to our press release announcing the newlook website and blog