Having spent the last 12 months rebuilding our website and incorporating state of the art flash servers and the like I cast my mind back to how adultery was when I set up shop almost 13 years ago.   I wrote my own first website using an HTML guide book and we were all text no pics.   There was very little online dating back then and everything was very new territory.  Back then there was a hero of the web called Adrian who launched Adrians adultery site - the finest of its time. It was an all-british testimony to nookie the british way!  It still exists, in fact it hasn’t changed one little bit.  Sadly it has slipped slowly from sight as the web grew and more powerful dating sites moved in.   I spent a very pleasant moment looking at it tonight and it brought back very happy memories.  

Adrian used to visit our forums sometimes, I never met him and know nothing about him but he was a legend in the online adultery game.  One day I will produce a hall of fame and he will be right there.    And alonside him we will have Thelma who launched Thelma’s Additions a few months before I launched loving links.  She has vanished completely never having made the switch to the internet,  She did try and sadly it was the worst website I have ever seen - I would have preferred being left with memories of her badly duplicated newsletter which was authentically bad.

Ah well in years to come all our flash sites will look pretty dull too but not too soon I hope, I have spent blood and money building our one.

We have a great thread running on the forum - what do guys do after  a bit of rumpy pumpy?  The interesting thing is that it was a question posed by a woman .    I know for myself that after  a good romp I enjoy lying on my side and being spooned and kissed on the shoulders until I drift into a light sleep.  It is the moment I feel most secure in my life and one of the reasons I won’t have sex with someone who is not truly special to me.  That moment after sex is so intimate that I wouldnt want to share it with anone I couldnt trust totally at evry level.  This is why I would always encourage my clients to find one long term lover they can build this intimacy with rather than a string of adulterous relationships where you just want to get dressed and leave.  At times like that there it feels like an eternity between her cumming and you going

If you thought that deleting an incriminating text message on your mobile would save your skin then check this out! This nasty little deice will recover the stuff you thought you had safely disposed of.  This is why we recommend you buy a seperate mobile phone for your lover’s messages.  Your ‘kosher’ phone should stay free and clean under all circumstances.

This is a beauty!!!  It is a quiz to see how much you know about the sin of fornication.

http://www.christianet.com/bible/fornication.htm

I got almost questions wrong.   I didnt see the question - ‘is this a load of old bollocks  written by a hypocritical bunch of jesus botherers?  I might have got that question right

Seemed to consume inordinate amounts of tea today as I got feedback from a couple of private clients.  Both of them had ust finished their first months as private Links clients.  One was a male banker and the other a female creative.   Fortunately both were in very positive spirits.   The banker had got off to a great start - met 6 women, bedded 4 of them and even had the pleasure of 2 of them flying out to spend some quality time with him in Geneva where he has an office.  What a result!!  When I first met him I wasnt quite sure how he would do but he has surpassed his own expectations as well as mine.   Indeed I was especially impressed that he pursued what I thought to be a lost cause with one woman and it has now turned into a splendid affair for him.

The other client, an Italian lady who works in the media has already caimed the scalp of one of tastiest new guys and is on the point of breaking the heart of a top corporate lawyer.  She was well pleased with our service and chatted with me for nearly an hour.  I do enoy the feedback it gives me a great perspective.

Well, I’m off now to relax for the weekend at a poker tournament  but I will no doubt post a bit between games.

Our forum is a neverending supply of quality thoughts on lovers.  This was posted the other day and it really merits being re-posted here on the blog:

The stroke of her skin in the night that is returned by a sigh and a clasp of my hand

The instant unthinking return of a smile

Almost poetry….

You will be delighted that the bbc website has a questionnaire as to whether you have it in you to be an adulterer 
I havent taken the test but I am fairly sure what the result might indicate

We have a new slogan - more passion less profit - to distinguish lovinglinks from the dozens of sites that sit on the frontier of the sex industry,  We keep our prices reasonable because we are not a profit-oriented corporation,   I run the site as much as a hobby as a business and my aim has always been to give clients the dating experience I was looking for when I started loving links nearly 13 yrs ago.  When I look at other sites and the crazy prices they charge for just one month of membership I think ‘what a rip-off!’  But then, they arent in the extrmarital dating business to help regular folk stuck in celibate and boring marriages they are there to squeeze the maximum profit out of their website.  That’s my gripe for the day….

David