Ha ha!  Guys that think that way shold have a look at a thread we are running this week on our forum called ‘Topping the vanilla’

A typical post on this interesting thread is  ‘Absolutely, that feeling of being the sexiest creature ever to have trodden this earth (like only a lover knows how to make you feel) might also have something to do with it too.  And, of course, our desire for the forbidden fruit makes the juice so much more erotic and desirable.’

or

‘You all know what I did and I could only have done that with a confident lover not the weak hubby’

So these guys you hear bleating down at the pub that there wife doesnt want sex might well be amazed that their wife wants sex but NOT with them!!!!

These and other great posts can be found every day on our forum

As another week draws to a close I reflect on how it has been an all ladies week for client meetings.  6 meetings with private clients and all of them women ranging in ages from 24 thru to 55.  I must have the best job in the world.  And what a range of talented women they were too!  We had a brand management consultant, a fashion photographer, a magistrate, a beautician and a pharmacist  - what a mix!!  All of them looking for something exciting to get spring buzzing.

I recently came across a series of sites on the web that seem to exist just to hate men.   One in particular is called womansavers and when you log on you are greeted with a cute cartoon video of a woman merrily singing about how men on dating sites had ‘wronged’ her and how she got her revenge by sending them computer viruses.   You can then search a database of men (mainly in the U.S)  and read their ebay-type ratings.  These women take no prisoners.  Even amongst their own community they have no time for cheating -  a woman member posted in their forum that she had cheated on her LTR and was full of remorse and was wondering whether to ‘fess up although she knew he would leave her  - what sort of support did she get from other women?   Well  this was typical..

YES you should tell him. He deserves every to know that your cheated on him and he could possibly have gotten an STD from your sorry butt. And no there is not a snowballs chance in hell that this cheating episode can be forgotten…

These women would go ballistic if they spent some time on our forum

Having really great feedback from people using our instant online customer service software on our new site.  We are trialing this software but so ar the reaction is very positive indeed.  I know I liked it when I came across it on a site some months ago and decided to incorporate it into the fabric of our new site design.  I like the idea that potential loving links users can contact us by IM from their desks without needing to phone us when they are in an office enviroment.  Do use this service I am often online myself to answer your queries.

It seems as if my life is revolving around whether the new site works on any of a myriad of different computer systems especially PDA’s.   Today I finally got it to work on Windows mobile 5 on my Ipaq.   A miracle!!  It is fiddly but once you get the hang of it it seems fine.  I managed to read and reply to mail from my IPaq even on gprs.  speedy it is not but in an emergency you can check mail that way. I will be putting a section on workarounds for different browsers in the site FAQ.

My day was brightened though by a pair of lovely ladies who turned up at the office for a chat.  They were ebony and ivory and they had the same name and were best friends.  Fresh and lovely in their 20s looking to date exciting older men.  I am sure that they will make splendid ‘nieces’. 

Sorry I havent been updating this blog for a while.  Most of my energy has gone towards debugging the new site.  IT’s amazing the things that crop up after testing once you actually go live.  I am amazed at just how many browser platforms there are - yesterday I discovered Camino for Mac and spent a couple of hours testing compatability  with our new system.  Seems to work fine.  We get some glitches on Safari and some on firefox for mac but we are working to  sort them all out soon.  We seem to be fine on Iphone too which is a great platform.   Strangely the problems we get on safari for mac don’t happen with safari on iphone.   We are also working on Blackberry platform issues.

Well, back to adultery… this has been such a busy month with spring in the air.  Our private client bizness is running on high octane with a mass of new women especially from the western corridors.  The gentle Hampshire countryside is steaming with passion.  I reckon Jilly Cooper had it about right  lol.   Must break off a mo’ have a lunch today with a dear female client who is truly Ab Fab - "Darling, I’m engaged BUT Loving Links is soooo much fun…"

January has been a busy month for media here at LL.  We started the year with a huge spread in the Daily Telegraph http://www.telegraph.co.uk/portal/main.jhtml;jsessionid=K3QOXJUFJ4HVBQFIQMGSFF4AVCBQWIV0?xml=/portal/2008/01/21/ftfaithful121.xml

This was a series of 3 informed articles over 3 days.  Day 2 was an amazing selection of interviews - all our clients of course! - and day 3 had a load of good adultery tips supplied by yours truly.

Then we rounded the month off with a nice appearance on ITV1’s programme ‘London Talking’ with Nick Ferrari and Vanessa Feltz.

A bit of radio the other day on Radio Limerick and I reckon it has been great year of media attention and we are only into mid-feb